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Interest Set every item in Safety & aftercare
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Interest
Safewords
Interest
Traffic-light check-ins
Green means keep going, yellow means slow down, red means stop
Interest
Non-verbal safe signal
A way to stop when you can't speak, like dropping a held object or tapping out
Interest
Regular check-ins during play
Interest
Negotiating scenes in advance
Agreeing on what will and won't happen before you start
Interest
Talking it over afterwards
Interest
Aftercare
Time to reconnect and wind down after a scene
Interest
Care for drop
Support for the crash that can follow intense play for hours or days; tops get it too ("sub drop" / "top drop")
Interest
Written agreement / contract
A written list of roles, rules and limits, agreed by everyone involved
Interest
Starting slowly and building up
Interest
Playing sober only
No alcohol or drugs before or during play
Interest
Barriers and safer-sex practices
Condoms, dental dams, gloves and regular testing
Interest
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Intimacy & affection
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Giving
Receiving
Kissing
Giving
Receiving
Making out
Giving
Receiving
Cuddling
Giving
Receiving
Massage
Giving
Receiving
Slow, sensual touch
Giving
Receiving
Intense eye contact
Giving
Receiving
Neck kissing
Giving
Receiving
Hickeys / love bites
Giving
Receiving
Slow, romantic sex
Giving
Receiving
Pet names / terms of endearment
Giving
Receiving
Compliments about your body
Kind words about how you look; Praise in Power exchange is about obedience
Giving
Receiving
Hair stroking, brushing and play
Giving
Receiving
Showering or bathing together
Giving
Receiving
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Hands & mouth
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Giving
Receiving
Handjobs
Giving
Receiving
Fingering
Giving
Receiving
Mutual masturbation
Giving
Receiving
Oral sex on a penis
Giving
Receiving
Oral sex on a vulva
Giving
Receiving
Deepthroating
Taking a penis or toy deep into the throat
Giving
Receiving
Face-fucking
The giving partner controls the pace and depth of oral sex
Giving
Receiving
Face-sitting
Giving
Receiving
69
Oral sex on each other at the same time
Giving
Receiving
Nipple play
Giving
Receiving
Breast / chest play
Giving
Receiving
Breast sex
Penis between the breasts
Giving
Receiving
Thigh sex
Giving
Receiving
Grinding / frottage
Rubbing bodies together for pleasure without penetration
Giving
Receiving
Tribbing / scissoring
Rubbing the vulva against a partner's vulva or body; scissoring is one position
Giving
Receiving
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Penetration
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Giving
Receiving
Vaginal sex
Giving
Receiving
Anal sex
Giving
Receiving
Strap-on sex
A dildo worn in a harness
Giving
Receiving
Pegging
Penetrating someone anally with a strap-on; coined for a woman doing it to a man, now used for any genders
Giving
Receiving
Anal fingering
Giving
Receiving
Rimming
Licking or kissing the anus; also called analingus
Giving
Receiving
Prostate stimulation
Giving
Receiving
Double penetration
Two things inside at once, vaginally and anally or both in one
Giving
Receiving
Vaginal fisting
Gradually inserting a whole hand
Giving
Receiving
Anal fisting
Giving
Receiving
Anal training
Gradually stretching with larger plugs or toys over time
Giving
Receiving
Quickies
Giving
Receiving
Long sessions / sex marathons
Giving
Receiving
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Using on partnerUsed on me Set every item in Toys
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Using on partner
Used on me
Dildos
Using on partner
Used on me
Vibrators
Using on partner
Used on me
Wand vibrator
A large, powerful plug-in or rechargeable vibrator
Using on partner
Used on me
Butt plugs
Using on partner
Used on me
Anal beads
Using on partner
Used on me
Cock rings
A ring worn at the base of the penis to keep it firm; take it off within 20–30 minutes
Using on partner
Used on me
Strokers / masturbation sleeves
Soft sleeves for stroking a penis
Using on partner
Used on me
Suction / air-pulse toys
Clitoral toys that use pulses of air
Using on partner
Used on me
Prostate massagers
Using on partner
Used on me
Remote or app-controlled toys
Including control over long distance
Using on partner
Used on me
Sex machine
A motorised machine that thrusts a dildo
Using on partner
Used on me
Very large toys
Using on partner
Used on me
Glass or metal toys
Smooth, body-safe toys that also hold heat or cold well
Using on partner
Used on me
Sex furniture
Wedges, swings, benches and similar
Using on partner
Used on me
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TyingBeing tied Set every item in Bondage
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Tying
Being tied
Rope
Rope ties of any kind, decorative or restrictive
Tying
Being tied
Shibari / kinbaku
Japanese-style rope bondage, often as much about the process as the result
Tying
Being tied
Decorative rope harness
Tying
Being tied
Rope suspension
Being lifted partly or fully off the ground in rope; needs real training
Tying
Being tied
Cuffs (leather or metal)
Metal handcuffs can hurt wrists and nerves; leather is safer for struggling
Tying
Being tied
Spreader bars
A rigid bar that keeps the ankles or wrists apart
Tying
Being tied
Tied to the bed
Tying
Being tied
Hogtie
Wrists and ankles tied together behind the back
Tying
Being tied
Chains and padlocks
Tying
Being tied
Bondage tape
Tying
Being tied
Mummification
Being wrapped head to toe in plastic wrap, tape or bags so you can't move; keep the nose and mouth clear and safety shears close
Tying
Being tied
Sleepsack / bodybag
A full-body bag that encloses everything except the head
Tying
Being tied
Vacuum bed
A latex sheet in a frame with the air sucked out, holding you still; breathe through a tube, never left alone
Tying
Being tied
Armbinder
A single sleeve that holds both arms together behind the back
Tying
Being tied
Straitjacket
Tying
Being tied
Bondage mitts
Padded mittens that stop you using your fingers
Tying
Being tied
Predicament bondage
A tie that forces a no-win choice: hold a tiring position, or move and cause another discomfort
Tying
Being tied
Breast / chest bondage
Tying
Being tied
Genital bondage
Tying
Being tied
Hair tied to restraints
Tying
Being tied
Long-term bondage
Staying tied up for hours
Tying
Being tied
Struggling / resisting
Tying
Being tied
Self-bondage
Tying yourself up alone; riskier, so always have a reliable way out and tell someone
Tying
Being tied
Cage / confinement
Being kept in a cage or small enclosed space
Tying
Being tied
Gags
Tying
Being tied
Ball gag
Tying
Being tied
Ring / open-mouth gag
Holds the mouth open
Tying
Being tied
Bit gag
A bar held between the teeth, like a horse's bit
Tying
Being tied
Cloth / underwear gag
Tying
Being tied
Posture collar
A tall, stiff collar that keeps the head up
Tying
Being tied
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Giving
Receiving
Spanking
With a hand
Giving
Receiving
Over the knee (OTK)
Spanking with the receiver lying across the giver's lap
Giving
Receiving
Paddles
Giving
Receiving
Floggers
A handle with many tails; heavy ones feel thuddy, thin ones stingy
Giving
Receiving
Canes
A thin, flexible rod, usually rattan; very stingy and leaves marks easily
Giving
Receiving
Riding crops
A short, stiff rod with a leather flap at the tip
Giving
Receiving
Belts
Giving
Receiving
Straps / tawse
A leather strap; a tawse is split into tails at the end
Giving
Receiving
Hairbrushes and household implements
Giving
Receiving
Single-tail whips
A single-lash whip; hard to aim and can cut skin, so it takes a lot of practice
Giving
Receiving
Slapping (body)
Giving
Receiving
Face slapping
Giving
Receiving
Breast / chest slapping
Giving
Receiving
Genital slapping
Giving
Receiving
Punching / thuddy impact
Heavy, deep blows with fists to well-padded areas
Giving
Receiving
Bastinado
Striking the bare soles of the feet with a cane, rod or strap
Giving
Receiving
Leaving marks / bruises
Giving
Receiving
Counting strokes out loud
Giving
Receiving
Long warm-ups before heavy impact
Giving
Receiving
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Giving
Receiving
Light pain
Giving
Receiving
Heavy pain
Giving
Receiving
Nipple clamps
Giving
Receiving
Clothespins
Giving
Receiving
Zipper
A line of clothespins on a string, all pulled off in one go
Giving
Receiving
Genital clamps
Giving
Receiving
Weights hung from clamps
Giving
Receiving
Biting
Giving
Receiving
Pinching
Giving
Receiving
Hair pulling
Giving
Receiving
Cock and ball torture (CBT)
Painful play on the penis and testicles
Giving
Receiving
Ballbusting
Hitting or kicking the testicles
Giving
Receiving
Vulva / clit torture
Painful play on the vulva, like slapping or clamps
Giving
Receiving
Stinging nettles
Giving
Receiving
Figging
A peeled piece of ginger root inserted anally; the burn builds after a minute and lasts around 20 minutes
Giving
Receiving
Heat rubs / menthol
Products like Tiger Balm or Deep Heat on skin
Giving
Receiving
Cupping
Suction cups that pull up the skin
Giving
Receiving
Trampling
Being walked or stood on
Giving
Receiving
Being made to cry
Crying as an emotional release during intense play
Giving
Receiving
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Sensation
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Giving
Receiving
Wax play
Low-temperature candle wax
Giving
Receiving
Ice and temperature play
Cold things, warm things, or both
Giving
Receiving
Tickling
Giving
Receiving
Tickling while restrained
Giving
Receiving
Scratching
Giving
Receiving
Feathers, fur and soft textures
Giving
Receiving
Wartenberg wheel
A steel wheel of sharp pins rolled over skin; originally a doctor's nerve-testing tool
Giving
Receiving
Electrostim (TENS / e-stim)
Electrical stimulation of the body or genitals with a device made for it; never across the chest or with a pacemaker
Giving
Receiving
Violet wand
A high-voltage, low-current device with glass or metal tips that gives sharp, sparking sensations
Giving
Receiving
Sensory deprivation
Taking away sight, sound or touch (blindfolds, earplugs, headphones, hoods) to heighten what's left
Giving
Receiving
Blindfolds
Giving
Receiving
Hoods
Giving
Receiving
Vibrators on the whole body
Giving
Receiving
Body oil / slippery play
Giving
Receiving
Teasing with breath and lips
Giving
Receiving
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Dominant
Submissive
Dominance and submission (D/s)
One person takes control and the other gives it up, by agreement
Dominant
Submissive
Giving / following orders
Dominant
Submissive
Rules and protocols
Dominant
Submissive
Praise
Being told you did well, like "good girl" or "good boy"
Dominant
Submissive
Titles / honorifics
Like Sir, Miss, Master, Mistress
Dominant
Submissive
Kneeling
Dominant
Submissive
Position training
Learning set poses to take on command
Dominant
Submissive
Collars
A collar as a symbol of the relationship
Dominant
Submissive
Day collar
A discreet collar or jewellery that can be worn in public
Dominant
Submissive
Leash
Dominant
Submissive
Begging
Dominant
Submissive
Asking permission
Dominant
Submissive
Punishments
Dominant
Submissive
Funishment
A "punishment" both people actually enjoy
Dominant
Submissive
Tasks and assignments
Dominant
Submissive
Writing lines
Writing the same sentence over and over
Dominant
Submissive
Corner time
Standing in a corner as a punishment
Dominant
Submissive
Keeping a journal for the dominant
Dominant
Submissive
Service / domestic servitude
Doing things for the dominant, like chores, cooking or massage
Dominant
Submissive
Objectification
Being treated as an object rather than a person
Dominant
Submissive
Human furniture
Being used as a footstool, table or similar
Dominant
Submissive
Inspection
Having the body examined like property
Dominant
Submissive
Control over clothing and appearance
Dominant
Submissive
Control over daily life
Rules about things like bedtime, food or schedule
Dominant
Submissive
Speaking rules
Only speaking when spoken to, or set ways of answering
Dominant
Submissive
Brats and brat taming
A submissive who playfully misbehaves to provoke a reaction, and a "brat tamer" who puts a stop to it
Dominant
Submissive
Master / slave (M/s) and ownership
An ongoing dynamic built on ownership and obedience
Dominant
Submissive
24/7 / total power exchange (TPE)
The dominant has authority over most or all of the submissive's life, usually 24/7; either can still end it
Dominant
Submissive
Nurturing / protective dominance
Gentle, caring control with no age roleplay
Dominant
Submissive
Long-distance control
Orders, check-ins and tasks over text or video
Dominant
Submissive
Financial domination (findom)
Sending money or gifts to a dominant as submission, often online; set a budget, as scams are common
Dominant
Submissive
Rituals
Set routines, like greeting the dominant in a particular way
Dominant
Submissive
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Controlling
Controlled
Teasing
Controlling
Controlled
Edging
Getting close to orgasm again and again without going over
Controlling
Controlled
Orgasm denial
Controlling
Controlled
Needing permission to come
Controlling
Controlled
Coming on command
Controlling
Controlled
Forced orgasms
Being made to orgasm repeatedly while unable to stop it
Controlling
Controlled
Multiple orgasms
Controlling
Controlled
Ruined orgasms
Stopping stimulation right as orgasm starts
Controlling
Controlled
Post-orgasm torment
Stimulation that continues after orgasm, when it's very sensitive
Controlling
Controlled
Chastity devices
A cage or belt that blocks touching or erections
Controlling
Controlled
Long-term chastity
Controlling
Controlled
Keyholding
One person holds the key to the other's chastity device
Controlling
Controlled
Jerk-off instructions (JOI)
Being told exactly how and when to touch yourself
Controlling
Controlled
Countdowns
Being counted down to orgasm
Controlling
Controlled
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Giving
Receiving
Dirty talk
Giving
Receiving
Being loud / moaning
Giving
Receiving
Degrading names
Giving
Receiving
Erotic humiliation
Embarrassment or shame that both people find arousing
Giving
Receiving
Degradation
Giving
Receiving
Size humiliation (SPH)
Erotic humiliation about penis size
Giving
Receiving
Body-focused teasing
Giving
Receiving
Mock threats
Giving
Receiving
Fear play
Playing with fear, like a pretend threat or darkness
Giving
Receiving
Mind games / mindfucks
Tricking or confusing someone as part of play, like a fake-out
Giving
Receiving
Jealousy play
Giving
Receiving
Being ignored
Giving
Receiving
Confessions
Giving
Receiving
Mantras / repeating phrases
Saying set phrases over and over
Giving
Receiving
Erotic hypnosis
Using trance and suggestion as part of play
Giving
Receiving
Trigger words
A word that sets off a trained response, usually set up through hypnosis
Giving
Receiving
Being laughed at
Giving
Receiving
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Top roleBottom role Set every item in Roleplay
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Top role
Bottom role
Roleplay in general
Top role
Bottom role
Strangers meeting
Top role
Bottom role
Boss / employee
Top role
Bottom role
Officer / suspect
Top role
Bottom role
Captor / captive
Top role
Bottom role
Interrogation
Top role
Bottom role
Royalty / servant
Top role
Bottom role
Client / escort roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Massage therapist roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Delivery person / repair person
Top role
Bottom role
Landlord / tenant
Top role
Bottom role
Religious figure roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Vampire roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Robot / doll roleplay
Acting like a programmable doll or robot
Top role
Bottom role
Characters from books, games or film
Top role
Bottom role
Cheating roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
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Owner / predatorPet / prey Set every item in Pet & primal play
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Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Pet play
Adults roleplaying as an animal, like a puppy or kitten, with a handler or owner; about the role, not real animals
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Puppy play
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Kitten play
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Pony play
Roleplaying as a pony: harness, bit, prancing, sometimes pulling a cart
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Pet gear (ears, tails, hoods, mitts)
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Tail plugs
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Eating or drinking from a bowl
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Tricks and commands
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Sleeping at the foot of the bed
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Primal play
Instinctive, mostly wordless play: growling, wrestling, chasing, biting
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Chasing / being hunted
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Pinning down
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Wrestling
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
Growling / snarling
Owner / predator
Pet / prey
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Me wearing
Partner wearing
Lingerie
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Stockings / tights
Me wearing
Partner wearing
High heels
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Boots
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Leather
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Latex / rubber
Me wearing
Partner wearing
PVC / vinyl
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Corsets
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Body harnesses
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Uniforms
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Costumes / cosplay
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Suits and formal wear
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Sportswear / lycra
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Jockstraps
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Underwear in general
Me wearing
Partner wearing
No underwear
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Gloves
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Masks
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Zentai
A skin-tight suit covering the whole body, face included; also called a morphsuit
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Gas masks
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Makeup / lipstick
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Crossdressing
Wearing clothes usually made for another gender
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Full nudity
Me wearing
Partner wearing
One clothed, one naked
One partner stays dressed while the other is naked (CFNM / CMNF)
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Sex while clothed
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Tearing clothes off
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Writing on the body
Words or marks on skin in pen or lipstick
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Shaved / smooth body
Me wearing
Partner wearing
Body hair
Me wearing
Partner wearing
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Giving
Receiving
Worshipping the whole body
Giving
Receiving
Foot worship
Giving
Receiving
Footjobs
Giving
Receiving
Boot / shoe worship
Giving
Receiving
Ass worship
Giving
Receiving
Cock worship
Giving
Receiving
Pussy worship
Giving
Receiving
Breast / chest worship
Giving
Receiving
Muscle worship
Admiring and touching a muscular body
Giving
Receiving
Armpits
Giving
Receiving
Hands and fingers
Giving
Receiving
Scent play
Enjoying a partner's natural smell, worn clothes and so on
Giving
Receiving
Sweat
Giving
Receiving
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Fluids
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Giving
Receiving
Cum play
Giving
Receiving
Swallowing
Giving
Receiving
Facials
Giving
Receiving
Coming on the body
Giving
Receiving
Creampie
Ejaculating inside the vagina or anus
Giving
Receiving
Snowballing / cum swapping
Passing semen from mouth to mouth, usually while kissing
Giving
Receiving
Spitting
Giving
Receiving
Drool
Giving
Receiving
Squirting
Fluid released from the urethra during arousal or orgasm
Giving
Receiving
Lactation
Play involving breast milk
Giving
Receiving
Period sex
Giving
Receiving
Watersports / golden showers
Peeing on someone or being peed on
Giving
Receiving
Drinking urine
Giving
Receiving
Desperation / omorashi
Arousal from a full bladder or wetting yourself, or from watching someone else; may include a partner controlling toilet trips
Giving
Receiving
Blood play
Giving
Receiving
Scat
Play with feces; carries real infection risks
Giving
Receiving
Sex without barriers
No condoms or dams; best with recent tests and a clear agreement
Giving
Receiving
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Medical play
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Giving
Receiving
Medical exams
Doctor or nurse roleplay with gloves, instruments and an examination
Giving
Receiving
Speculum
A medical tool that holds the vagina or anus open
Giving
Receiving
Enemas
Flushing water into the rectum
Giving
Receiving
Catheters
A thin tube into the bladder through the urethra; needs sterile kit and training
Giving
Receiving
Sounding
Inserting smooth, sterile metal or silicone rods into the urethra; risk of tears and infections
Giving
Receiving
Medical instruments and props
Giving
Receiving
Exam table / restraint table
Giving
Receiving
Shaving a partner's body
Giving
Receiving
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GivingReceiving Set every item in Edge play
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Giving
Receiving
Breath play
Restricting breathing or blood flow to the brain for arousal; can kill even when done carefully
Giving
Receiving
Choking / neck pressure
Pressure on the neck that cuts off blood or air; can cause blackouts and death, with no fully safe way to do it
Giving
Receiving
Smothering
Covering the mouth and nose with a hand, body or face-sitting; same risks as breath play
Giving
Receiving
Knife play
Using a blade for the feel and the fear, usually without cutting
Giving
Receiving
Cutting
Making shallow cuts for play
Giving
Receiving
Needle play
Sterile single-use needles passed through the skin, then removed; also called play piercing
Giving
Receiving
Fire play
Flame on or just above the skin, like a lit wand or alcohol lit and put out in seconds; needs training and a fire kit
Giving
Receiving
Gun play
Unloaded or replica guns as props
Giving
Receiving
Branding
Permanent burn marks
Giving
Receiving
Scarification
Deliberate permanent scars
Giving
Receiving
Cutting or shaving head hair
Giving
Receiving
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Top role
Bottom role
Consensual non-consent (CNC)
Agreeing in advance that one person may play at refusing, or that play goes on despite protests; a real safeword stays in place
Top role
Bottom role
Forced sex roleplay
A fantasy of forced sex, played out with full consent agreed beforehand
Top role
Bottom role
Kidnapping roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Intruder roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Ambush play
Being "taken" by surprise at a time agreed on in general but not exactly
Top role
Bottom role
Blackmail roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Coercion roleplay
Top role
Bottom role
Sleep play / somnophilia
Sexual touch while a partner is asleep, only with their clear agreement given beforehand
Top role
Bottom role
Free use
Agreeing to be available for sex whenever the partner wants, within agreed limits
Top role
Bottom role
Manhandling / being thrown around
Top role
Bottom role
Rough sex
Top role
Bottom role
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Doing to partnerDone to me Set every item in Gender play
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Doing to partner
Done to me
Feminization
Being made more feminine, through clothes, makeup or behaviour
Doing to partner
Done to me
Forced feminization
Feminization as part of a power or humiliation dynamic
Doing to partner
Done to me
Masculinization
Doing to partner
Done to me
Sissification
Forced feminization with "sissy" used as a humiliating label
Doing to partner
Done to me
Bimbofication
Fantasy of being turned into a sexualized, airheaded "bimbo"
Doing to partner
Done to me
Pronoun or name play
Doing to partner
Done to me
Gender-swap fantasy
Doing to partner
Done to me
Maid roleplay
Doing to partner
Done to me
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Interest Set every item in Partners & groups
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Interest
Threesome with two men
Interest
Threesome with two women
Interest
Threesome, any genders
Interest
Trans partners
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Same-gender play
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Foursome / partner swap
Two couples together, or swapping partners
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Swinging
Singles or couples having sex with others for fun, often swapping partners; also called "the lifestyle"
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Group sex / orgy
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Gangbang (being the centre)
Several people taking turns with one person
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Gangbang (joining in)
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Being shared with others
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Watching your partner with someone else
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Cuckolding / cuckqueaning
Getting off on your partner having sex with someone else, often with humiliation; a cuckquean is the female version
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Hotwifing / stag & vixen
One partner sleeps with others while the other enjoys it, usually without humiliation
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Anonymous partners
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Glory hole
Sex through a hole in a wall or partition with a partner you can't see
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Open relationship
A relationship where sex with others is allowed
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Polyamory
Having more than one loving or romantic relationship at once, with everyone's knowledge
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Being watched during sex
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Masturbating for someone
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Striptease / lap dance
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Watching in a mirror
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Photos
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Video recording
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Video calls
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Sexting
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Sending nudes
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Voice notes / audio
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Watching porn together
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Watching others have sex
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Subtle play in public
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Remote toys in public
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Wearing a plug or chastity out
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Secret signals around others
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Outdoor sex in secluded places
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Places you could get caught
Check local laws: public sex is illegal in many places
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Nudist beaches and resorts
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Munches
Casual social meetups for kinky people at a café, pub or restaurant; most have no play at all
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Play parties
Private events where people play in front of others
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Dungeons / BDSM clubs
Venues with equipment for play, usually with rules and monitors
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Sex clubs
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Classes and workshops
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Food play
Using food like whipped cream, chocolate or fruit on the body
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Wet and messy (WAM) / sploshing
Getting covered in food, mud, water, slime or paint
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Oil wrestling
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Smoking fetish
Arousal from watching someone smoke
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Balloons
Arousal from balloons: playing with, inflating or popping them ("looners")
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Pregnancy
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Impregnation / breeding fantasy
Fantasy or talk about getting someone pregnant
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Inflation fantasy
Inflating, or pretending to inflate, part of the body, mostly as fantasy
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Size play
Fantasy about giant people (macrophilia) or tiny ones (microphilia)
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Furries
Fans of anthropomorphic animal characters, some in costumes called fursuits; about the characters, not real animals
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Tentacles
Tentacle creature fantasy, mostly from art and anime
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Monsters / aliens
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Vore
Fantasy of swallowing someone, or being swallowed, whole
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Transformation fantasy
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